I just lost my tuxedo kitty. He was almost 20 yrs old. He past away on Nov 20 2011. I grew up with him. He knew me and I knew him. He wasn't vocal but anytime I was sad or crying he would put a paw on each side of my neck and nudge me with his head. He always answered to his name. He would sleep with me at night. The best part was he would paw at the cover so I would raise it up for him to be under the blanket too. He was the best cat ever and I am only posting this as a way that maybe he will know how much he is still loved and he is terribly missed. I would do anything to see him one last time. RIP Lucky. You my best friend, will forever be with me!